Wednesday, January 29, 2020

As time goes by….


As time goes by….

Well, this month went by fairly fast…
Seem like all I did is remove snow with the
King.. and now it is all melting..  Which makes
me wonder, if we had just stayed home..(that way not
needing the driveway) and if the building are as strong as
we think they are…  Could we all hibernated and forgone
the removing of snow and letting it do itself. 

After all, if we had built up a cellar like room, in our homes. And filled it up sometime in November with enough food, water and etc to last 3 months.. You know with freezers, shelving like they did in the 1800 to 1990’s and some still do.. of food that is canned.  5 gallon bottles of water…. All protected…   So when ever the snow blizzards started.. we would have the supplies (oh, yea, can’t forget toilet paper.. lol)  and we could survive with out leaving the house.. (got to set up bill paying my internet) …..   who knows… we could have saved ourselves a lot of work…

But to be honest with you… and don’t tell the King I said this.. but I kind of like it..  The air is fresh, the exercise is good for me.. (once I get thru using the muscles I haven’t used all summer) and there is a sense of accomplishing something when you see a clean deck, and driveway.. 

By the way, you might have to remind me of these words next time we have a lot of snow.. lol And I am not sure we would not kill each other with a 24/7 month or two.

GOOD BYE JANUARY….  

Tuesday, January 28, 2020

Your life is a yard sale…..


YOUR LIFE IS A YARD SALE... WHEN.....
I  think I might have mention this before.. but a few years ago, I was yard saling with my sister in law and her daughter.  My niece…  As we pulled away from the estate sale .. yard sale…  Kayte said… “Well, Mom, now you know your life is a yard sale a day after you die”….  We laughed.. as it is so true..

Over the years we have seen families divide up Mom and Dad’s things… Or Grandpa and Grandma’s…  Some even fight over what they wanted..  Saying MOM PROMISE THAT TO ME..  And then there are the family members who don’t want any of it.. just get rid of it.. Hence, we have estate yard sales or even auctions..

Look around your house… really… all those things that you prize… does your family?  My answer is probably not.
I have things that please me… so I keep them.  Some are given to me from families and friends..
Or I just bought them, because….. again… they please me.

About 5 years ago, I decided to down size my place. So put out the word to the kids… Is there anything in my house that you saw, that you would like after we are gone?  Because I am going to give a LOT to the animal shelter store… so say something now.. or it might not be here when I am gone.   If it is something I am not ready to get rid of… I will put your name on the back or bottom of it.. And it will be yours.. If I decide to get rid of it in a couple years…. I will remember who wanted it.. In the mean time.. if I am getting rid of it now..  says so now…
Several of them did say so… and we did ship those items off to them.. Surprising no one wanted the same thing that the other wanted.  Also surprising they were not big items nor expensive… One wanted a sign that was given to me about 40 years ago… one wanted a little Christmas tree.. rest didn’t seem to want anything..  And I can’t blame them.. we are people of small means.. so there is no treasure, except maybe what is in their minds.. 
I gave one of my bibles away to a grandson.. With a promise of reading the 23 psalm at my funeral out of it.

So look around your house…if you are over 65, think of what you want to have done with things.. If you haven’t use it in YEARS, maybe you should ask your kids.. about it.. and if they don’t want it.. have a yard sale and go out to dinner on the sales..  

Wednesday, January 22, 2020

Standing in place…..


Standing in place…..

After it stops snowing.. and the weather temps go back up to a nice 38 to 40.. it is time to wait… wait for the sudden thump… of snow falling to the ground from the roof tops.

We have raked some off the edges in hopes of helping it along… as it froze to the eave of the roof..  Yesterday it rain some.. and it has fallen some.. but wishing it would fall some more..  This afternoon is suppose to get up to 43.. and we are hoping the rest will go.  

We had some young men come and dig snow off the top of our lean to… and also the neighbor’s house, that we watch over while they head South.  As they are the worse for not sliding. 

So here we wait.. rest up from 2 weeks of plowing, snow blowing and shoveling and play musical chairs before breakfast.. and repeat at about 4 or 5 pm.   With a constant shoveling off the deck.  About every 2 to 3 inches we take it off the deck .. other wise it get too heavy.

So it is getting small chores done that were let go while snow removing…  SPRING WHERE ARE YOU???

Tuesday, January 21, 2020

But she is just a dog….


But she is just a dog….

We have heard this before.. from those who don’t understand.  Especially if yours has passed away.
Most of us have dogs of our pass.. who still linger in
our hearts.

We got a doxie in 2006, I believe.  She was just a tiny thing.  We could hold her in one hand.  The breeder made sure we had a desirable home for her. Yard, fence.. were we good people…. etc..  and we passed. She was 4 months old when we got her.  We had a cat at the time.. that was about 8 months older than her and they got along great. Even when they were older.. they would chase each other thru the house…   We lost the cat to cancer about 4 years  ago..  So it has been just Misty and us… the staff.

After we got her, we had her fixed when she was 6 months old.  Brought her home.. and  the King wrapped her in a soft blanket and loved on her..  We had a open kennel for her and she slept there…but not that night.. She slept in between us .. still wrapped in the blanket.  And she has been there ever night since then. 

She was the King’s dog.   I wasn’t a fan of small dogs. Never owned one… and actually the King’s dogs were large too…but he wanted a doxie.   And our daughter had a woman who worked with her..  There was a mix up on the breeding while no one was home.. so she just wanted to find her a good home… I think the breeder would agree that she got one.. in fact one time she mention about how spoiled Misty was.  As I use to send her pictures and do a little letter from Misty.

Well, Misty is going to be 14 this August.. and so there is some lump in bumps (literally) in health for her.. And last week we had to take her into the vet for some surgery and teeth cleaning… We had to leave her there at 8:30am. And we knew this was going to be hard on us… but figure she would be fine.. and the real hard part was we weren’t going to get her back until 3pm.. and no we couldn’t just stay and wait..  Now with Misty getting older, the fact of life is we could lose her in our life time.   Something we don’t even want to talk about…  But when we came home, after dropping her off…  and I unlocked the door, and so use to seeing her on the couch across the room…….. it hit me… this is not going to be good… if just leaving her at the vet,
knowing we will go back to get her…   yet just that moment.. hit me hard and loneliness…came thru.

You will laugh, as at 2 they had not called yet..  almost 3 still no word..  and the roads were getting worse with the snow still coming down from the night before.  So I called. She said it would be a while.  I told her about the road here, and told her, we were going to come and wait… as if we were going to be stuck in anyway on one side or the other.. we wanted to be stuck on the side with Misty, not at home. 
She said we could but we might have to sit in our truck, as the waiting room was full..  Told her that would be fine. 
We went and 3:30 went by.. then 4:30… so we went in, as we knew they would close at 5.  They let us see her, but she was out. She had the teeth done and they were starting on the warts she had on the top of her head and lip.  We waited in the waiting room.. time ticked away.. 5 to 5, they said she was waking up…  15 minutes later they brought her out.. none worse for wear, except for us..  We held her and hugged her.. paid our bill and took her home.. she was thrilled to see the couch and home and DINNER.. as she hadn’t eaten since the night before..And of course had to check out the yard..to make sure no other dog came while she was gone…   
YEP, SHE IS JUST A DOG…. 
So here you see…  our fur child.. and she better live as long as we do.. lol


She use to get up on the back of the chair to see if she could guilt the King into sharing.. 
 This was when we first got her.. tug of war with Rokon, her buddy
 2008 we had a LOT OF SNOW.. and we had a path snowblown for her to go potty....   I put her up on the ridge of it.. and that is our 4 foot fence, she is standing up on..... making sure the rest of the world was still there...



She is greyer now... and little heavy set .. like her owners....    now... 

Wednesday, January 15, 2020

AND THE BEAT GOES ON...

Well on Tuesday.... were were suppose to get a glimmer of  sunshine, like on Monday.. THEY LIED.. they said the snow would  stop by 10am... THEY LIED...  

So made a picture album.... called  HOW HIGH THE SNOW, MAMA.....  

This is measuring around the yard..  Some areas seem to have more than others 



 now you are probably wondering .. why would they do a path around the house..   in front as well as this side yard... Well, you see years ago.. after having a really bad year... we had to pull the snow off the roof... BUT we couldn't get to it as the whole yard was over 3 feet tall.....  We had two 4x8 plywood sheets, that we would throw after each one as we went around the house.. not a fun job.. and some times the plywood would sink some while you are pulling snow...    We might be slow learners as we did the same the next year... well, stupid we aren't..  and that is why we  snowblow a path around the house...  and yes, that area by the house fills up to the windows. 






 this here is where I laid the yard stick up against the snow berm from the snowblower...    

And the beat goes on.... says we are getting 38 to 40 by Friday... as we are having deep freeze with this right now.. getting close to 0 at night...  but along with the warming up???? ANOTHER STORM coming in by Saturday...  oh lucky us.. well ... at least we will have good ground water come August. 


Tuesday, January 14, 2020

picture says a thousand words..

It started Friday...  and kept coming... never ending.. I AM SICK OF SNOW.. we would plow 2 to 3 times a day.. and shovel off the deck up to 4 to 5 times a day... Up first and got dress, and out I went. breakfast would come later... Clean off the deck.. last thing at night, let the dog out to go pee and clean off the deck. Only to be 3 to 4 inches back in the morning.. 
Monday was a little lighter.  We did the full round at 6am and done by 8. and the rest of the day it didn't snow.. but now we are getting deep freeze for 3 days... And next weekend?  a repeat of this past weekend.....  did I mention I AM SICK OF SNOW!!







































Tuesday, January 07, 2020

FEELING CRAPPY...

It isn't the flu.. it isn't a cold, just feel crappy.... so see you next week..

Monday, January 06, 2020

Loud and Proud … the year of 2020


Loud and Proud … the year of 2020

This will be the year of the LOUD AND PROUD…  first off .. the LOUD is because I am slowly losing more of my hearing.. so people are going to have to speak up, if they want me to be able to hear them…

PROUD…. Because I made it to 2020…. Now to the rest of you, this is just another year… to me.. it was going to be really special year…. And with a tear at the heart, it still will be… 

See, I was looking forward to this.. as 4 of us in my family was gaining another decade….  My daughter Julie, who I lost in 2017… would be 60 this June… and I will still celebrate as special..but I can’t tease her about being an old lady…..   BUT there is my youngest… who is turning 50.. yep the big 5…0…in April.  Also this will be 50 for Earth Day, as she was born on the first Earth Day….   Then there is the younger generation… my grandson.. son of the 50 year old.. who will turn 30  this November…
And finally… the one who started all this is.. ME… I will be 80!!!  I will hopefully make it to April.. and  I didn’t know if I would live this long.  So those of you who have stuck with me thru thick and thin.. will have to read this blog on April 5th .. to see if I made it all the way…

Also adding to this.. is a bucket list… I am not a big fan of bucket list as per se… But there is two things on it for now.. In August, I want to go to the Worel Family Reunion…one more time.   This is my first marriage family. I have been to a few.. over the 50 some odd years.

But hoping I can talk my kids into showing up this year.. one more time… So they can meet some of their cousins..and I want to see some of my nieces and nephews.. and hopefully grandchildren and great grandchildren… So that is on my list..  
Then there is Christmas day… I want to spend the day on the beach… I have one son and his lovely wife, who keep asking us to come down and spend it in the house they rent each year… Well, 2020 is going to be that year..  Hoping and praying for good weather, so we can travel without fear. So praying for no snow for a week.  It can be cold, just no snow..

So that is the start of what I want to do in 2020.. the surprising thing is.. I was telling the King.. I really don’t want a birthday party…  Even the month I was born in, can be tricky for bad weather..  to me .. summer would be better .. so August sounds good to me..  I mean if the Queen of England can have hers in June.. why can’t I have mine in the summer as well.. 

So we will see….  But in the meantime.. if you see me.. remember when talking to me.. raise your voice up a few levels..