Tuesday, February 27, 2024

Do you remember??? And I wonder.

Do you remember??? And I wonder.

As I was looking over the blog pages of 18 years ago,

I came across this one …   do you remember? It was in the news ..  everyone had an opinion.. most was let Terri go.

As I remember that story of 18 years ago…  I wonder how the story would have panned out today.. With the state congress’s making up the rules of lives.. women’s in particular..  Their take on how the human life should begin.. when will they decided to when it ends… as in this story.

It is just a matter of time..   After all they reverse .Roe and Wade..  and now working on starting with life at the sperm.

Will the health care owners get lawyers to prolong life to

line their pockets more?  Who knows..  20 years ago we didn’t think we would be here on Roe and Wade. 

this story seems sooooo far in the past and yet.. 

 

 MARCH 31, 2005

Somewhere Over the Rainbow......

Some where over the Rainbow, Way up high,
There's a land that I heard ofOnce in a lullaby
If happy little bluebirds flyBeyond the rainbow.
Why, oh why can't I?

That is the first line and last line of
Somewhere over the Rainbow...

Today, it finally ends. And hopefully the media
will take their 3 ring circus some where else and
let the people at the Hospice Center have peace
and quiet, they deserved.

For Terri, it has ended. To be trapped inside
a body for 15 years. Now she is free. Only one
can make decisions for her. And I trust him
more than any earth bound person. He will
have her whole and happy....
And the other people left behind? He will
take care of you all too... He will judge, not I.

So Terri, I hear, SOME WHERE OVER THE RAINBOW...

For those who don't remember
the words...here they are...
at this site.
Good bye Terri, God Bless
http://www.reelclassics.com/Musicals/Wizoz/rainbow-lyrics.htm

 

Monday, February 26, 2024

Heading out of February…..

Heading out of February…..

Just 3 more days. Adding in the leap year day of the 29th.  We head into March.  March the month that comes in as a lion and out like a lamb…  Which I don’t know if it will be like that..  as the weather has not been lion like for over a month… Even yesterday and today.. we have had winter storm warnings of MAYBE snow and winds 25 to 50 mph. and so far it has been a no show of just rain only.

And then there is the every year sessions of thought..  with March 5th coming up… what do I do..  I have wanted to make it a 20 year thing.. but I am only celebrating 18 years this year.  Do I have it in me to do 2 more years… Hell, will I still be around in 2 more years.  

Last week I started with thoughts of ending it as I was having trouble coming up with something to say..  after all there has been how many post.. well over 3,500…

Started out with every day.. 7 days a week.. then shorten it up to 5 and then now 2…  Some days I have a lot to say, especially when I find my soapbox…. Other days it is a struggle.. and it was a struggle day that I thought of writing… AND SO SHE WALKS AWAY..  had a few lines.. but didn’t write them down…  so with my brain.. there went that…   ha ha…  There has been sooooooooo many times, while away from the house, I came up with what I thought would be great subjects..   but living life, wiped them away.. so figure they must not have been that great..  

Any way.. that is what is on my mind this week..  do I keep on, or do I finally say enough??

Tuesday, February 20, 2024

President Day…

President Day… 

I am old enough to remember when there was no “PRESIDENT’S DAY off’”….  Oh, we celebrated PRESIDENT WASHINGTON birthday day.. and of course before that… PRESIDENT LINCOLN’S birthday..   22nd and the 12th.. in that order.. 

Now they not only throw in the whole bunch.. meaning all of the presidents… and not on their days but on the third Monday of the month.  EVERY YEAR.. 

And to be honest..  (as in those two President were… Honest Abe..  and I shall not tell a lie (Washington).. I don’t remember if they were a day off.. they were for the schools, but don’t know if they were actual Federal holidays..  Probably were.    And that is the sticker… with adding new Federal holidays.. they had to cut down on the ones that they had. Can’t give the workers too many days off.. I guess.

I saw lately where the Oriental people would like to make Lunar Year a holiday..  not sure if they want a federal one or not..   but I say .. go for it.. Why you ask?  Because the blacks have two days and a month of recognition.  They have January… MLK day..  ALL OF FEBRUARY for Black month.. AND then they added Juneteenth Day on June 19.. I think that was suppose to be when the slaves were set free.   And being from R.I. and we did have slaves in the 1800’s.. but we also had Irish slaves.. Oh, they call it indenture?   It was where the Irish were brought over for stable help, because they were and are great horsemen. And the woman came over for kitchen help.. They were told when they worked enough.. they would be free to go where they pleased..  only trouble is . they didn’t tell the Irish employee/slaves.. that it was almost impossible to be free as the owners kept adding in more and more money owed.. with money for rent.. money for clothing.. money for food and etc..   So I wonder..  when did they set the Irish free.. was it the same time as the blacks… or did that go on for a while.. I will have to google that .. But they at least got a day too.. not a day off for the nation.. but one of recognition.  ST. PATTY'S DAY. 

And finally the Native American's got  a month.. but again.. not a nation holiday as the blacks have gotten.. but one like the Black's..  a month  of recognition. 

Anyway.. I hope you had a fun day yesterday.. IF YOU GOT IT OFF,   as there is a lot of companies who do not recognize it.. and the workers work..  And of course in the nursing occupations for hospitals and nursing home.. that is not a holiday..  Altho.. when I was working the nursing home.. they gave MY birthday off instead of paying time and half for a holiday for all of us.. Giving us our own birthday off, was just straight time..  so a saving for the nursing home.  Oh, forgot.. they don’t called them nursing homes anymore.. they are HEALTH CARE CENTERS..    .

 

 

Monday, February 19, 2024

I.... Hate... PAPER WORK...


I hate paper work.. I hate trying find things…
 

As life slips by I try to keep thing in order.. Fat chance.

As my aunt told me years ago..  PAPER WORK, PAPER WORK.. I HATE PAPER WORK… she was telling me of her dining room table which had stacks of papers on it.. So were junk and a lot of it was stuff she had to do something with it. And even some that had to be filed..  Her daughters came to visit.. and they would go thru the piles with her..  both of them office workers, so an fairly easy chore for them..  And she was SOOOOOOOOOOOO GRATEFUL..   But then in a week or so.. there it was again, she said.  She said she tried to take care of things. as they came in.. but some how, the piles returned. 

Here I am almost 20 years later and I know EXACTLY what she means..  I am not a smart phone person.. I do have a file cabinet.. I do have a file thingie, that I put recipts in for each month as it comes, so at the end of the year I can do taxes. But there is other papers.. that I hang on to..  They are not so important that I need to file them in my file cabinet.  So I have folders on my desk.. and I try to go thru them from time to time to throw stuff away.. But it seems it is a matter of time before I have the folders filing up with “temporary save”

As they become to be known.  And THEN THERE IS THE COMPUTER.. I have so many things saved in my Doc. File.. then there is folders on the desk top.. that are temp holds..and some are just a file..  My head is aching..  WHY CAN’T I BE LIKE MY GRANDSON…  he files EVERYTHING on his phone.. (yes, a smart phone, but remember I flunked that a year ago)  he THROWS AWAY HIS RECIPTS!!  Oh, my God.. how can he verify he paid? Some is on his phone.. some he just doesn’t care..  because no one is going to want to see them anyway..  And I know deep down in my heart he is right..  but my heart and sould won’t let me throw any of them away.. None of them.   When January comes, I have every single recipt for the past year.. I have every bill with the check number, date and amount on it.. I have every single thing I think I MIGHT NEED.    And then there is the going thru each receipt… just in case I put one in that I need for taxes.. Which is crazy as there is less and less they let us use on our income tax..  

So I tell you  … I HATE PAPER WORK.. I HATE PAPERS…FOR ANYTHING.. You know it is sad, when you go thru your file cabinet draw that has the folder for all the booklets for anything you bought..  and find out there is at least 4 that you don’t even own the item anymore..

I feel like that commercial where the old guy tries to break the younger generation.. from becoming like their parents. Making them throw things away.. and etc..  those people is me….   I know sure as hell if I throw it away.. something will come up…  just like as soon as you throw away a tool or etc. you haven’t used for 5 years….  You will need it 3 days later.

And NO I do not do THE CLOUD..  I know it exist, but I have no clue how it works and etc..  AND I DON’T WANT TO KNOW!!!  It is just more information.. to have to take care of..

And I am not going to say anything about spending 4 hours trying to find out what I did with some ancestry paperwork.. as I don’t know where in this house it  is.. and I gave up my account.. and I don’t want to pay just to copy one list!.. That is a whole another area.

 

 

 

 

Tuesday, February 13, 2024

It is... WASTED DAYS AND WASTED NIGHT SEASON

It is WASTED DAYS AND WASTED NIGHT SEASON

 

This is the part of the year.. where we run in one spot.. day after day after day..  This year to add to that.. we have no snow.  Oh, we have a patch here and there, where we piled it up in the beginning of January.. when we got about 9 inches one day and 5 more the next and then another 5.. after that NOTHING..  But lots of rain.. and wind and GOOD BYE, SNOW.

So now it is like end of March.. no snow, mud everywhere. Load limits on the road..  The walk around the yard is frustration.. You see the dead leaves of Fall. The branches that need to be taken down..  the vines that need to be trim around on the bushes..  But with lots of rain and wind.. you just can’t get into the mood.   If you get any sunshine it is about 2 or 3 in the afternoon, when you are winding down for the day. 

Will we get more snow?  Who knows. Surely the weather man doesn’t, as he is just as frustrated as we are, the change signs.. only to have mother earth switch it around in the air.. and warmer comes..  The Mountains did get some snow.. they got 13 inches last week and they were THRILLED.. as it has been disappearing there too.. and then of course there are avalanches to worry about.

They got more snow today… about 3 inches.. we got rain.

Cabin Fever is going to be coming early this year.. 

Monday, February 12, 2024

Wasn’t going to watch… but did

Wasn’t going to watch… but did

I use to watch football..  on the weekends and the Super Bowl over the years .. off and on.. if I wasn’t working.. but of the last couple of years.. I just haven’t had it in me to watch. It wasn’t anything big or even little.. just wasn’t into it.

Wasn’t going to watch it this year.. BUT SURPRISE.. the King decided to start watching the game… they surprise is.. because he DOES NOT LIKE FOOTBALL.  Now a good fishing show, he is right there.. but football.. nah..

Yet here we are..

Then as we switch to watch the news during half time.. we come back and it is 10 to 13.. The 13..to 13…. 16 to 16.. then 19 to 19 AND IT GOES INTO OVER TIME.. WOW..

Even the King is excited..  Now we have no horse in this game.. either one is good. But the game itself.. turns out to be good…  It is not a 45 to 3.. it is in overtime…. And down to the last wire.. less than 2 minutes of the over time…

AND THE  KANSAS CITY CHIEFS WON… 

Tuesday, February 06, 2024

What is your occupation?

What is your occupation?

What kind of work did you do over your years?? And what is the longest..   being a housewife and mom doesn’t count.. while it is an admiral occupation.. I have not found any that paid for it..  So count the ones you were paid for.

My first paying job was the usual, especially for women. Babysitting.. Wages… were 25 cent an hour… I did it from 14 to 17…  with another thrown in when I was 15 for the summers..  I worked for a Produce Stand. Selling produce. So I learn how to tell a good watermelon.. a good cantaloupe and etc..  wage.. also 25 cents an hour.. 

Then I graduated. And got a job at the Naval Exchange dept. of the Navy base in Newport R.I.  wages was a big whopping $1 an hour..  I got fired.. a year later for insubordination.. didn’t know what it meant.. so he told me to go home and look it up in the dictionary that I would have plenty of time to do so.  Reasoning being I did not know how to play office politics..  I had upset one set of the office group, while working for the other side..  plus I had walked into the supply room on a couple that was married to others…. Who were top bosses.. one of which was the one that fired me.

But that sent me down to Florida with my grandfather..  While there I would go swimming in the ocean which was lined with hotels.. One of which I got to be friends with the housekeeper’s daughter.  One day the restaurant cook asked me if I ever waited on tables..   which I smart-assed ..only my family..  But ended up telling him, I was willing to try if he was willing to teach me..  His normal waitress, had to go home to a funeral for a family member.  I was living with my grandfather who was not the happiest camper that I took the job.. but figured maybe it would do me good.  Well, it was a learning thing for sure.   Found out how horrible men where to women waitress, and because I was kind of a smart ass, I survived the 5 days.  And because of it.. I have had a respect for those who waitress.  Wage… lol.. two free lunches after the 5 days..  no time to collect during working time.   I took the orders, walked them out to the table..  Kept the tables, clean, filled sugar, salt and pepper containers, and ketch and mustard ones… and always wiping down everything as I went.. There was no kid to take away the dishes and get the table ready for the next customer.  The cook was a fairly decent guy.. but I had him as I warned him, I was not a waitress.. no experience … and HE ASKED ME to work..

Next I was off to San Diego, Ca. as my mother’s friend came to Florida to watch over my grandfather (who really didn’t need anyone but company).

My first job was working for Christmas holidays, in a music store. As soon as Christmas was done.. I helped with inventory counting and then I was laid-off..  wage $1.25.

Next up was Ratner Men’s manufactory..  which made mens suits and sports jackets. I was hired in the payroll office. I was a counter.   We were given sheets of paper.. with stickers on them.. Some times it would be about 3 or4 stickers and some times the sheet was full or there would be up to 3 sheets full. On these sheets were stickers..  about inch long and ¼ wide.  And on those stickers were numbers.

Those numbers represented an item that was sewn on to the jacket or pants of the suit.  There were 3 of us who did this part of the job.. There was another one who took over the sheets and took the items, plus the wage for that sheet of items sewed.  Bigger ones were one price.. small ones another.  Could be a pocket, a collar or waist band.. bigger ones were the legs sewn together.. and the front of the jacket to the back of the jacket.  I lasted there 2 years.. and had some fun times with fellow employees.. especially one called Judy.. I have already written about her and our escapades.   I left there, as I had gotten married and then was pregnant.   Wage $1.50 an hour.

After that I did a short time in a 26 Flavors ice cream shop that also did hamburgers and hot dogs, with fries.  That one was about 9 months.. as the man who owned it was in the Navy.. and his wife ran it while he was gone..  And he came back two days early.. and found out that she was not at the store for opening..and she wasn’t there for closing..  That I had been doing all of that… she only showed up to take the money for the day.   So he closed the shop. Wage was $1.30 an hour. Babysitter was $35 a week.

I did several years of doing the Mom job… and ended up divorce and then remarried.  I help with the business by being bookkeeper for mechanics and then for scrap iron. Even ran the smasher for a short time..  and was the car burner when it was legal.. to get the copper wire out.

When my husband passed away.. I had been going thru nurse aide classes and graduated 4 days before he passed. I went to work at a nursing home a week after his funeral.

All the kids were teens so no babysitter. And the boys left shortly after.. with just my daughter at home in school.

I worked for 18 years there.. starting at $3.35 an hour.. got a raise  6 months later as the owners really like me.. a whole whopping 5 cents.. lol.  So it was 3.40.  by the time I left 18 years later. I was making $9.11 an hour..  see our wages were frozen for 3 years.  When the new nursing care center went in and workers were jumping.. those of us got small raises as we were loyal and stayed..  those who threaten to leave got 75 cents to a $1.25 raises to stay..    Those of us who stayed were rounded off the nearest dime.. One gal had been there 34 years.. she was making .09 so she got one cent.. I was an lucky one.. mine was . 04   so I got 6 cents. Lol…  But anyway..  I was 63, we had new administration in that was cutting everywhere.. and a new nurse director.. who wrote me up for changing the residents too often and using too much supplies…   I could see the hand writing on the wall..  so I turn in my notice for the end of the month.. which was also the end of the year. HAPPY NEW YEAR… I AM SO GONE.  Lol..  hello SS…  

I did some home health for about 4 years.. and like that.. so much more gratifying.. So appreciated. Turning 70 soon, so gave up home health after my last one when into a health care center.

 

So what did you do for an occupation?

Monday, February 05, 2024

IN SANDPOINT AS IN HEAVEN……

IN SANDPOINT AS  IN HEAVEN……

Our church has a new way to earn money for the kids of the church..  actually I don’t think it is just our church kids.. maybe others as well.. But it is to get funds to pay for summer camp for the kids..  Something that I believe in.   So many kids for the last 100 years have come back with a new lease on life.. Especially those who live in not the nicest of homes.. I do understand there have been some camps that were not the greatest but those are the minority.. the !%.. 

For a lot of kids it is a new opening..  especially those from the cities.. who don’t get the run and play, to play games.. to learn how to swim.  Learn team work…How to shoot a bow and arrow, how to fish.. and so much more... Even how to be lifeguards.  Some even come back in their teens to be instructors or cabin supervisors..  

But the price of camping.. is getting pretty expensive for those who are barely making it thru life..  Summer camp is a luxury for those in low in come.   Having lived in the low income bracket when raising kids in the 1970,,,and 1980,, we did get an opportunity to have the twin boys go to Boy Scouts.  They loved it.. away from their siblings was a treat. And to get to do kid stuff..   We, as a family did camp out.  The old fashion type..  no tent.. certainly no camper and etc.  One time I had to have one of my older son (he was about 10 at the time) make a fire for me…  as we forgot the matches at home..  This was one of the times I camped solo with the kids.. husband showing up a day later when he was off work.   We slept next to the river.. where we got up at dawn and fished for breakfast and etc..   City kids don’t get this opportunity.  So if I can help.. I do.

This year with the church running a shirt and jacket sale for the profits to go to the summer camp..  I was all in.. I got a tee shirt.. but then saw the jackets.. so ordered one of them.

On it has these words…

 

IN SANDPOINT

AS IN HEAVEN…

 

They come in brown, black and navy… I chose black... 

The only concern I had was .. in this day and age,… some people take object to the words.. or not understand..

As it is taken on the words in the Lord’s prayer.. ON EARTH AS IN HEAVEN… 

So if someone says something .. what will be my answer be..

I decide to ask them.. what do they mean when THEY say the Lord’s Prayer?  That maybe they have in mind that they would like the earth be more like Heaven?  Well, maybe there are those of us who want Sandpoint (the town we live in) to be more like Heaven..   where people are treated with kindness and etc.