I HATE
TIPPING… I hated when I use to be a
waitress and I really hate it now!!
I hated it
when I got my first waitress job as a teen in Florida.
Just give
me an hourly wage and let it go.. don’t give me slave wages.. (50 cents an hour) and figure I will make the
rest up in tips.. Some people tip really
well, some tip lousy and some don’t tip at all.. But at least I didn’t have to pay taxes on it
.. like they made it a law when Reagan was in office.. (another reason why I
was not fond of that man)
And then
came the day of putting your tips in a jar.. and at the end of the shift.. a
percentage went to the clean up crew (the ones who clean the tables off and
etc) and then the cook… WHY THE HELL did
he get part of my tips? He was already getting 6 times my wages. And then there was the lazy waitress, who got
part of my tips.. because I was putting in good money as I worked my tail off..
and she was getting lousy ones because she was rude and slow and sloppy. So I hated tipping.. Especially when the owner then took out of it
what he thought the tax would be on the tips.. or worse yet.. tally the receipts
of what the food was.. and figured we SHOULD have gotten a 15% tip, and that
would be taxed at such.. when in fact
there were some who left a $10 bill and other who would leave a $1 bill or even
two quarters. Yep.. I HATED
TIPPING..
Now I am on
the other side of the coin so to speak..
I am the tipee.. For several
years, what I left for a tip was considered pretty good.. I use to be in their shoes.. I did not
discount my waitress when it was the cooks fault the food wasn’t up to par.. or
he was super late getting it out..
Don’t beat up the messengers was my thought.. she was trying her best to cover for
him.. extra coffee.. message of when it was going to be coming
out.. and etc.. She tried.. he did not.
Then came
the automatic 20% on your bill tab… before you even got a chance to decide.. at
the fancy restaurants. So I didn’t go
there anymore…
I tip $3
for breakfast and $5 for lunch and dinner…
and if I have small children with me.. I tip $10 because I know what a
mess they make.
When I
mention that is my tipping rate.. I was shamed and thought to be horrible
person. I am sorry.. but that is all I
can afford.. and when I mention that…. I was told..
IF YOU CAN
AFFORD 20% OR 25%.. THEN STAY
HOME.. WHAT? WHAT?
Who the hell are you to tell me I should stay home.. that I am not rich
enough to go out to dinner? I was pissed
and thought the person was rude.
But found
others say the same to other people.
Going out
to dinner anymore is not a pleasure as it use to be. Use to be, if you timed it right.. you had a
nice meal and in fairly quiet room.. Now
.. you have children running around.. if
you happen to sit in a booth, you get children kicking the back of your booth..
there is noise all over. And not so much the children.. as it is those who have
to shout in their cell phones so everyone gets to hear their conversations. If we happen to go out to dinner anymore..
we go at 3:45 … and get the dinner meal.. before everyone else gets off
work. And we are leaving as they come in.
But we have
down graded to lunch and some times breakfast..
lot quieter for one.. the meals
are a little cheaper, so the tip isn’t so big.. and my tips are correct for
those others..
You know
there should be some math person who can figure out what the cost of the meal
is.. add the 10 to 15% into the price and call it good and outlaw all tipping
in that restaurant.
One place had kitchen help tax.. what the HELL
IS THAT? You are already taking the waitress tips and dividing it with the
kitchen help… LIKE I SAID……… I HATE TIPPING..