Friday, December 12, 2008

It is the time of the year...

Time to do the gathering,
Get the papers and info
ready. After all it is only
20 more days to the end
of the year.

So I look in the folder where
I put all the papers, receipts,
and other proof of spent money...

Yep, it is time to start gathering
up the paper work for tax time.
Make sure I have the receipts,
cancelled checks, everything
else I can think of.

It is also a time of depression.
Looking at where the money came
in, and where it went out. And wonder,
where the money went.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Some times you just got to wonder

We certainly have a lot to be proud of..
I say that sarcastically. Between Congressmen
who stash money in the freezer, or have their
homes redone thanks to special friends, and
toe tapping in bathrooms. Now we have a
Governor who has decided he is cross between
Mayor Daley or Al Capone.

And then you have our religious leaders, with
their lady friends, money hungry of the Bakers,
or meeting men in dark places. Yep, we show
quite a picture to the world of what it is to be
in high places in America.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Loose Lips Sink Ships

They have a new program coming on
television next month. It is called
Homeland Security.

I don’t understand these types of
programs. I would guess the idea
is to soften our thoughts about
Homeland Security. That maybe
if we saw how they work and what
they do, maybe we would be more
accepting of their rules.

To me, it makes me wonder. After
all this shows how the group works.
So can’t the terrorist get ideas of how
to outsmart them? They would know
what the tricks are and know how to counter them?

Tuesday, December 09, 2008

I don't give Christmas presents anymore

Well, that isn’t quite so.. There are twofamilies who still do the gifts. The restof my family, has honored our wish.I have been telling my children to spendtheir money on the grandkids, and nowgreat grandchildren. As each person has become myfriend in the past 5 years or so, I have insisted,on cards only. And this has worked.There is a few who will give homemade foodsto us, which is ok… like jelly etc. And wehave done the same. But 99% it is cards onlywhich suits us fine.I give birthday presents to very few.Kind of on the same idea. It isn’t that Ihate giving gifts… I just not crazy aboutthe commercialism of the holidays. Andthe frenzy of trying to top the other, with thebest or most expensive one. I guess becauseI am not competitive. I see no good in toppingthe other person.I give gifts for NO REASON DAY… which Idecide what day that is. I see something and thinkof someone special in my life who would like that.So I buy it and gift it to them. It comes from theheart. Sometimes, I get funny things to makesomeone laugh, when they are having a bad day. Guess I qualify for a bah-humbug person for theholidays, right??

Monday, December 08, 2008

Elder Care...continued

This is kind of a comment to an answer…

First there was an article like comment, on Huckleberry On Line,
Then there was a comment to that, which was answered in Nuts and Nonsense
At http://jeaniespokane.blogspot.com/2008/12/elder-care-edler-abuse.html.

I was an aide for over 17 years. I would love to tell you that every aide is a
great aide and goes beyond the call of duty for each of their residents.
in health care centers, (that is what they call nursing homes). But that would
be a lie. It is true of 20 per cent of the aides. Another 40 per cent will be at least
most of that. The other 40 per cent are there for the money, or they can’t get another job
anywhere else.

All health care centers are suppose to screen their employees. But some are so desperate for help that they will let that person work, while they get the screening done. (a week usually) and then fire them if there are questions. Some of them are not so fussy. Depending what the results are of the screening. This went into effect about 10 years ago.

While health care centers are on the low pay scale, it has gotten a little better in the past 5 years. I had worked for 17 years and was paid $3.60 an hour in the beginning. I was paid $11.05 when I left in 2003. Experience and good reference usually will get you a fair wage. Not great, but fair.

The life of the aide is a hard one. The ratio is 20 to 2 in the elder care unit, smaller if it is a specialty unit, like brain trauma unit, which usually has a 10 to 2 ratio. Those in the elder care unit with the 20 to 2 is counting if both aides show up. The facility tries to get a replacement and that happens 90% of the time. The other 10 is one aide doing all the work, the other aide from another floor will help with the lifting. 98% of the time the nurse will NOT help.

Depending on the shift, of how much time the aide has extra for the resident. (they are not called patient in a health care center, they live there so they are residents). The Day shift has no time for extra chitchat. They talk quickly as they do the care. The first 2 hours is a mad rush. Dressing, doing teeth and hair, the aide has the average time of 5 to 7 minutes to get each person dressed. Many of these centers have the noc shift aide help by getting up 3 to 6 residents. Meaning that there are many who are getting up and dressed at 5am. Not choice, it is an institution, and that is their policy. They will tell you, that the resident has rights, and choices, which they do. But sleeping in to 8 or later is not one of them. All residents are to up by 7am. When you have 20 to get up, you have to start early. Some one has to be first. And if the resident has the unfortunate pick of being dressed by the noc shift, then you are up before 6am, when they leave.

While family get upset with their family member being in urine (or any other disarray) when they arrived, they have to understand, it is in a rotation of every 2 hours. And it takes that much time from the time they leave your love one to coming back to them again. And 60% of the aides do not like their residents in urine either. And they are on the run to keep them from it. If you see an aide who is just standing around, they are doing their work. And you should expect them to be helping your love one.

Evening shift, is slightly more relaxed. They get up the ones who laid down for a nap, who are half dressed or more. There are activities, so they use that time to help in different areas. The rush for them is after dinner. Getting everyone ready for bed. And doing baths if the facilities don’t have a bath team. Which is separate from the regular aides.

Noc shift (10 to 6) is the most relaxed shift. They are busy, but not the mad rush of the other two shifts. They make rounds every 2 hours, toileting, clean up those who can’t, and also answering call bells from those who are mentally alert. Between 3 and 4 a.m. is the quietest time of the shift. Which the aide does their book work usually at that time. At 5 am is when thing get busy, as some residents wake up, and depending on how many people the shift is to get up for the day shift, will make a difference of how fast it becomes.

While your family member might be the picture of the sweet old lady or gentleman, not all residents are. So the aides are beaten, bit, spit at, pushed, scratched and punched at least once a day and depending on how many Alzheimer residents they have.

An aide has to fulfill 24 hours (at usually 2 a month) of in-services. Which is a class of information that is given by employer. They are paid for this, but it is done in their off time. There are yearly CPR classes, fire fighting classes, and how to deal with different types of residents.

5 years is the average work span for an aide. Some don’t make it that long. Rarely does one last more than 10 years, and very rarely do they do over 20. Burnout is a major factor. The aide not only deals with residents, some combative, but some nurses with a bad attitude, and a facility that is there for the money, even the no profit ones can be very money minded. Putting a lot of pressure on the aides.

What is the answer to this… of course like anything else more money. The Medicare and Medicaid pay only for so many hours per resident. 90% or more are Medicare or Medicaid residents. If in fact they had the aides they have now and also had a floating aide per 2 floors, it would help a great deal. If the place has a bath team besides the aides on the floor it helps. And even workers. Lot of aides work on their days off, because someone called in, and there wasn’t anyone else to get to come in. One year I worked 52 hours of overtime, in a 2 week span. Many times I worked 16 to 30 hours of overtime. And one time I worked 24 hours thru. When the flu hits the building it takes it total on everyone.
So like I said in the beginning, I would love to tell you, that your love one is getting top-notch care. But I will tell you that 80% of the aides are trying their best to

Friday, December 05, 2008

WHY

Why isn't there something here today?
Well, it was like this... I was busy from 8 to 2pm
and I had nothing in my head... well, more so than
your regular day... so I posted.... NOTHING..

Even thought of just posting the word... and leave it at that.

NOTHING

Thursday, December 04, 2008

Turkey and this and that

It has been a week since the feast.... and we finally have
finished the leftovers. Well, maybe some veggies are left.
And that is with dividing up the food with the four families
who joined us...
here are a few pictures..


The table is set...



The early birds wait for the rest to show....

And the King cuts the turkey....and dinner was served...




THIS AND THAT.....

Thanksgiving always reminds me of the
time I use to work at the health care center.
They always served turkey for at least a week
before Thankgiving..
By the time Mom or Dad go home with the
kids for Thanksgiving, they are sick of turkey.

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As the world knows Feb. 29 is doomsday for regular TV.

It is ticker taped across our televisions daily. Wonder what
people think when they see it,who live in other countries?

You need a government issued card for a box
(which by the way does not take care of all the ills of TV.
Mine kept telling me “no signal”)

The government says everyone has to have DTV.
Why? Why is this a regulation?
Why does the government care?

So what is next..dial up internet?
Will we all have to have wireless or
high speed?

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Trouble children

In the news is Safe Haven Law.
The one making the news lately is Nebraska
because they didn’t put an age limit to the word children.

So people were showing up and dropping off their children.
Many of them teens. And some are from other states.
People have made judgments against these parents.
But these people have never walked in these parents’ shoes.

There are a lot of disturb children out there.
Bipolar and other problems. Problems so heavy that the
parents can’t handle the kids.
These are girls as well as boys..

These children are verbally abusive and also a lot of
them are physically abusive to their parents.
Especially single moms.

They have even asked the courts. Most of the time the courts
are not helpful at all. And the rare times, they put the kids in a
temporary home, of which it cost the parent over $400 a month.

When these are single parents, especially women, where are they
going to get an extra $400 a month? So the kids and the family slip
thru the cracks of life. Sometimes leading to the beatings of children,
siblings, by the trouble child. Even murder. You can blame it
on broken homes, but that isn't the answer..we need answers, not
blame. There has been single parent homes for 100's of years. Now
it is worse. Woman who try so hard to keep family together. Even
single men. They need help, not put downs.

Some times the kids end up on the street. There seems to be
no back up for parents. This Safe Haven did. And now that loop
has closed as well. Hopefully the exposure on the news brings this
problem to surface and there can be some support and answers
for these children and parents. The rich can send their kids to
private behavior schools. For the low incomes families there is no
place. What is a parent to do? When that child is an endangerment
to the other kids in the family?

I truly hope the Safe Haven has open doors for review in courts
for these parents to get help.
I hope it opens up conversations and support for the families.

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

We have come a long way, Baby???

We have come a long way, Baby?
I don’t think so.
If so, then why are there still stupid women?

Stupid women?
Stupid women, they are the ones who live with a man
who most are not married to, who have no job prospect
because they rather live off the stupid woman.

Then add to the mix, children, the victim of theses men, be
they the dad or not.

Why in heaven's name are these women of the 2000
still doing the stupid act? Surely sex can’t be that good.

Why do they turn their paychecks over to these ticks of life?
Do they feel unworthy? And no, I am not talking about the
men who are the househusband. Who take care of the kids,
and even home school them.

I am talking about the guy who gets his cigarettes and beer
money from these women and spend their time with the
boys or in bars. The men who show up at their jobs on
payday. Women who show up on their jobs with a black
eye with make-up. Men who don't want these women
talking to friends or family.

And women let them have a pass. I just don't get it.
In the 1960's and 70's we fought for this? Where are
these women's self esteem?

Monday, December 01, 2008

100 years of corruptions or more...

How do we ever turn that around?

In the newspaper we read about a Federal worker who
acquires an airplane from the Forest Dept.
A Boston Whaler from the Coast Guard, even a 44-foot
sailing boat from the Navy’s Reserve Officer Training Corps.
Which he gives to his brother, who takes it to Canada ..never to
be seen again.

These are not small items… How does this happen over
the years and no one said …”no you can’t have that.”
Or someone asking “where did it come from, and how did you get it?”

This isn’t the only case by far… you have Senators like Stevens from
Alaska, who took favors of remodeling of his house, among other things.

This isn’t even new.. it has been going on for over 100 years.
People of power… taking, feeling entitled to things. People, we
have trusted over the years.

This mess has cost tax payers trillions or more over the years.
And if we really knew how bad it was, if we knew the tangle web
they have built to deceive, we would be sick. All of us who have
played the game of life correctly. By all the rules, and honesty, only
to be stiffed by the people in charge.

It will never be corrected. We don’t even know how bad it is…we
only hear about the tip of the iceberg once in a while.