Figured my dad would
be next … as I think my mother’s will be longer..
F. Gilbert (also
called Gub by some friends) was born on a small island in R.I. called Jamestown . His parents
are Aaron R and Harriet R.
F. G. was brought up with a very loving woman.
Harriet.
F.G. grew up on the
island helping his parent with his brothers and sister, when they had the John
Carr Watson Farm. Aaron ran a stable out
of there before cars. Then they moved into town, built or bought a gas station
with a store.. with stairs on the outside leading to the living quarters above.
F. G. would ride his bicycle down those stairs much to his mother’s
horror.. His aunt who ran the post
office across the street would see him come down.. many a times head over
heels. Later the family with the oldest
brother built a garage to join it and evidently it because a Ford
dealership.
F.G. finished the 8th
grade. Even tho he professed to going to
high school…. My aunt, his sister told me many years later, that yes, he went
TO high school.. meaning TO was the
operative word… she said he would go every morning to drop off his girlfriends…
and go back every afternoon to pick them up..
He was working for his father at the time.. and went to work early on
his motorcycle,(on the ferry) pick up one of the cars, make the rounds to all
the girls houses, and took them to school.. before his father came to the
office. And then found a car he was
working on, to make a test run to make sure it was fixed.. and picked up the
girls and give them rides home.. That
must have been quite a trip to get his work done in time to test it.. must not
have been daily. And I imagine there wasn’t much going on during the winter.
While F. G. worked for
his father in Middletown
for a while. At another Ford dealship.
The only way to get back and forth between Jamestown
and Middletown (joined by Newport ) was a ferry that went back and forth
every half hour until about 11 or midnight.
FG rode a Indian motorcycle to
work each day on the ferry.. And some
times after partying, he would fly down the landing and jump the motorcycle on
to the ferry end. After several of these
and some other trying the same.. the ferry captain had a chain put across the
end… Luckily F.G. heard about it.. or saw it on this way to
work.. and never got caught into it.
I rode the ferry many
times and saw the chain, it wasn’t until F.G.’s sister told me why it was put
up there.. I thought it was so the cars didn’t fall off the end.
F.G. married a woman
and they had a daughter.. then later met Mary Elizabeth while working on a
horse truck.
During World War II,
he went to work for the torpedo station, and then transferring to the Navy
Seals building in Quonset after the war. He worked for over 30 years for the
government.
While he loved horses,
he had no where near the love that Mary Elizabeth had, so he tolerated shows
over the years.. but he did get into Hackney ponies after he retired. He also
had a creative side too.. he loved to
carve wood.. he made many of bowls, wooden spoons, (I still have mine) and also
some primitive faces in rock as well as wood.. somewhere there is a totem pole
about 2 feet high, with all sorts of faces.
Animal as well as humans. He
could fix just about anything…. And was a hell of a mechanic… he was one of the
few that could listen to an engine and know what was wrong with it.. and could
fix it.
And he was the best
Dad… needless to say my brother and I could along with Dad most of the time..
he inherited his mothers calmness.. But don’t get me wrong.. he could be hard
to deal with .. if he got mad..
I named one of my son’s
after him.. he even got his nickname from him.. which of course is not used
now.
Tomorrow… my mother…
No comments:
Post a Comment