Understanding Transgender…

No, I am not going to address the bathroom

situation.. although I have to wonder and ask

where did all the transgender go to the bath

room before this became a big issue?

My understanding the difference between a

lesbian/homosexual  is that they are comfortable

In their own skin.. They just happen to love

someone of the same sex. But the women

like being women and the men like being

men.

Where as, a transgender does not feel

comfortable in their own skin. They feel

they should have been born the opposite

of the sex they were.  They feel that God

go it wrong. 

Which makes life a living hell for them.

It isn’t just the fight within, to try to

sort it all out in the beginning, but

the fight with society as society shuns

or bullies them. 

It would be so easy for them.. to walk into

a building and come out the other side the

gender they prefer, with everyone’s memory

being that gender and not the body they

were born in.

But life is not like that. Most people harass

them.. or shun them (family members or

even friends)  Some of the people have

it in their hearts to accept the person.

But most don’t. For we humans, tend

to hate what we don’t understand. What

we don’t understand, we are scare of..

and back to the hate.  And for some reason

we seem to think subconsciously, we

find that making it bad for those, it makes

us seem less bad.

We forget that these are human beings,

who deserve to be loved.  Who deserve

to be hugged by their families and friends…

to be accepted by the same.  Why can’t

that be? What are we afraid of?  If we

accept them, as themselves, it doesn’t

make us transgender.  So what is the

harm.   I know some have trouble with

it religious wise.. But didn’t Jesus love

everyone?

I realize there are some lesbians, homosexual

And transgender make it hard on all of us.

By flaunting their sexuality in flaming

attitudes. It is hard to accept them as

just them, when they decide to throw it

out there with wild colors, half dressed

and in your face attitude.  And that is

what makes it hard on the rest of them.

And us… trying to understand.

A good share of us, just wants them to

act and dress normally, just be the sex

they feel comfortable in.  Just don’t come

out with dresses on, with a beard. That

is what upsets people… Be a woman if

that is what you want.. be a guy, if that

is what you want.

And a lot of us, are just trying to understand.

And let you be you… 

As far as the bathroom thing, makes me wonder

what the powers that be... government or media

are trying to throw under the rug, so this is a 

diversion.